Published in EQUUS·Jul 16The American’s TaleFirst, the President was assassinated, and the members of Congress were killed with machine guns. Then the army declared a state of emergency. Shocked and stunned, people stayed at home glued to their televisions. Islamic fanatics were falsely blamed for the execution of the Government. The Constitution was suspended. Other…Human Rights9 min read
Published in EQUUS·May 30A Hard Look at What America Really WantsSeveral folktales around the world tell the story of two friends or allies who suddenly begin quarreling about a seemingly mundane topic. Usually, a third party is at play — a trickster — who incites the argument by sleight of hand. …America6 min read
Published in EQUUS·Apr 20UnbulliedWhen I was a girl I was chronically bullied. From elementary all the way through high school, kids found all kinds of reasons to target me. I was too sensitive, too awkward, too smart, not smart enough, too rich, too poor, too white, too pretty, not pretty enough, too proud…Bullying4 min read
Published in EQUUS·Mar 12The Great Resignation — Brought to You By: WomenMany people are talking about The Great Resignation, also known as The Big Quit — an economic trend in which employees voluntarily resign from their jobs en masse. Beginning in early 2021, and primarily in the United States, The Great Resignation is one of the largest unorganized social movements of…Women6 min read
Published in EQUUS·Feb 17Dealing with Unwanted Thoughts and Negative Narratives(spoiler alert: it’s not about positive thinking) It’s amazing how just one thought can change a day. Actually one thought can change an entire lifetime. Consider this: let’s say you have a pervasive thought like, “I am not that smart”. If left unchecked, that thought’s persistence turns it into a…Negative Thoughts5 min read
Published in EQUUS·Jan 25Do It NowIt’s Sunday morning and I’m sitting down to a new routine, actually, better put — a new fidelity. I made a vow several months ago that I would become a writer. Now that might seem strange to you that I made such a vow considering I write regular essays and…6 min read
Published in EQUUS·Dec 19, 2021How Colonization Tames Us All (and how to get free)Someone asked me the other day, “If you were to succinctly summarize what you do with people, what would you say?” I thought for a moment and said, “I help them rewild.” It’s true, if I look back through the coaching, the EQUUS Experience work with the horses, the online…7 min read
Published in EQUUS·Nov 30, 2021FragileI’m not sure who fired the first shot — nature or humanity. But somewhere long ago a great rift happened between humans and nature. Most say humans were the bad guys, that we got all uppity and decided to be greedy jerks and just take everything at any cost despite…Fragility11 min read
Published in EQUUS·Nov 30, 2021What’s OK, What’s Not OKThere are times in one’s life, many if you are lucky, where the journey takes you to an abrupt right angle turn in the road. A decision is made. An insight is gleaned. An epiphany granted. Or sometimes a crisis occurs such as an illness or a death. Either way…Personal Growth5 min read
Published in EQUUS·Nov 30, 2021Miranda Priestly is Not the Villain(or, How Texas Stole Women’s Bodies Out from Underneath Our Noses)How can any of us forget the delightful 2006 film starring Meryl Streep called The Devil Wears Prada. Shining under the providence of perfect timing, The Devil Wears Prada hit theater screens at a chapter in corporate American life when the ‘assistant economy’ was exploding, and many young aspiring women…Womens Rights5 min read