10 Ways to be an Exceptional ListenerAre you a good listener? If you ask any person, they will likely tell you they are good listeners. But if you ask the people in their life…Oct 24Oct 24
The 21 Wisdoms of EQUUS — the theories, disciplines, frameworks and sub-frameworks that inform our…When you work with EQUUS, you are not engaging just any leadership and personal development organization. You are engaging with a movement…Sep 18Sep 18
Assertiveness Series Part 7: The ClientWhen Amy enrolled in the Assertiveness for Life and Leadership course, she was mad. She was resentful, brittle, and exhausted. “I don’t…Aug 26Aug 26
Assertiveness Series Part 6: Monsoon SeasonHere at Buffalo Spirit Ranch we are learning how to reclaim, remediate and harvest all the water that comes to us. We live in the high…Aug 23Aug 23
Assertiveness Series Part 5: The Dangerous HorseOur wonderful and kind horse Cisco teaches us that the word “no” is a complete sentence. During his previous career as a talented stadium…Aug 22Aug 22
Assertiveness Series Part 4: The CaretakerBack in the day, when I was a doormat…that is to say, when I diminished myself by minimizing my needs, silencing my voice, and numbing my…Aug 20Aug 20
Assertiveness Series Part 3: The DoormatI used to think that boundaries were these rigid structures, sort of like a moat around a castle wall, complete with crocodiles and armored…Aug 19Aug 19
Assertiveness Series Part 1: The BuffaloWelcome to my Assertiveness for Life and Leadership Series, a seven part series that highlights the topics of assertiveness, caretaking…Aug 14Aug 14
Getting Clear — the Radical Choice to Wake Up in a Culture Obsessed with NumbingWhen I was a young girl learning how to ride, almost consistently I was admonished to ‘not let the horse know I was afraid’. Supposedly my…Aug 5Aug 5